I got an anonymous comment from someone today that really stung! I was told that "I am an Irresponsible person because I didn't have an amnio and abortion." (this is what you get when you join anti abortion groups on facebook) Apparently "I have ruined my daughters life by forcing her to grow up with a retarded brother." I wish this type of Ignorance didn't hurt but even though I have grown and know it is not factual. I have to admit it still leaves me feeling broken and ANGRY! I made this montage and am leaving it everywhere I visit and advocate online. Just in case anyone else stumbles across us and doesn't get it!! When I discussed this with Chanelle her response was......."What?? Don't they know I am lucky. I wish I could use the F word on them they are not smart!!" This alone has cushioned the blow :) I just hope and pray that no one ever ever ever says something so hurtful to her face. If someone ever called her brother retarded I think it would break her heart. This is the reason we even had a conversation. I am concerned that this could happen one day and I felt discussing it before hand might better prepare her. Tristan will be attending kindergarten at her school next year. Yea so basically the reality is? Hmm let's see?? I am not ruining anything, it is mean people like you that will make my daughters life harder. As you can see in the montage she and her brother are doing just fine!

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